Break Up Advice - Ending A Relationship Is Never Easy But Necessary If It Is Best For You

Published: 02nd June 2010
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When things gone sour in a relationship, sometimes it may be good to go separate ways when the relationship cannot be saved. The break up advice below can enlighten you in handling the matter carefully so that things can end in a better way.



When things do not work out and the relationship has gone sour, it may be a better choice that someone makes the move to initiate the break up. However, it is never easy for the person to make the first move, as breaking up is too difficult to do. If you do not make the move now, things can get worse and can really affect the relationship further until a point when even when both of you go separate ways in the later stage, both of you can even become enemies.



Some relationships can end up in a dramatic way such as clothes being dumped out of the house while some can be ended peacefully with understanding from both sides. Therefore, how can you carry out the break up in the peaceful manner way so that both of you may not really get hurt?



What You Should Do To End The Relationship In A Good Way



The first break up advice is to resolve the issue peacefully. First, you need to be sure why you wanted to end the relationship. The next thing is to get in contact with your ex and to be honest with him/her and to yourself.



When contacting the other party, it is best the discussion could be carried out face to face. Ending a relationship should never be done over the phone. If it is a distance relationship, try to resolve the issue as soon as possible and you should not drag on and let both of you suffer so much.



Be Understanding To The Other Party's Feeling But Do Not Hurt Yourself Too



When breaking up with your partner, most likely the other party may say things that he/she does not mean. Also do not let these words hurt you. Just put whatever things bad he/she said at the back of your mind, as it will most likely be unintentional. Sometimes, your partner may need a few discussions before the finalize break up. Be compassionate, see to his/her requirements, and meet up with him/her. This way, you can still break up with him/her with compassion, love, and not becoming enemies. You can remain as friends even after the break up. Do not take things too personal.



If both of you think that the break up will be good for both of you, then it should be the best and both of you can move on. I know that it is not easy to handle your emotion during a break up but if you do it properly, it can beneficial for both of you.







If you follow the above Break Up Advice, you not only can end the relationship in a good way, if in the event that you feel you may want to get back with him/her, there is still a possibility. If you decide to do so, you should check out "The Magic Of Making Up". This book contains practical experiences that the author has and has helped many people to save their relationship. Click on the link Saving A Relationship if you want to know more.




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